ya, i may have been a bit disgruntled when i wrote that, it was since you mentioned 'general audience' and my exp is hardly anyone pays for relays... but there are some out there

wine is obvs the best,

eden.nostr.land is pretty big

nostr21.com is one of mine only 21 sats

galaxy13.nostr1.com is only 13 sats

I've been tryin' to push for paid relays for a long time, but some days it feels like lightning has failed me because nobody even thinks it's worth it to essentially pay to solve a 'captcha' and would rather get spammed to deth.. lol