But yes, while wives should submit to their husbands marriage is a contract designed to honor each other and the lord. So that each is stronger together than separate. Ephesians 5:22-24: "Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands."