He's got a point...to follow or not follow a Christian path is a personal choice to accept Jesus as the Son of God, your savior and follow Him. At some point has nothing to do with boomers, parents or other people unless you choose to surround yourself with non-believers. You're in a "bad" church, GET OUT!!! You see "bad" examples of Christians, GET AWAY!!! If you are really searching God will show you the way.

“Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you.

For everyone who asks receives, and the one who seeks finds, and to the one who knocks, it will be opened.”

— Matthew 7:7-8 (NASB)