I’m not sure, I have no way to know. Why were yours not reported?
I’m very sorry to hear about those tragedies.
I’m younger, so my social group is also fairly young and healthy, but I don’t have any anecdotes of effects like that occurring. With 70% of the world having taken 1 or more shot (as the OP claimed) even 20% of the vaccinated having adverse reactions would mean 14% of the world. I speculate that’s closer to 1%, at highest. But again, without good studies and data, there is no way to assess this claim.
This situation becomes further complicated by the fact that so many people have horrible diets, health habits, and are exposed to fiat healthcare anyway. With or without COVID and the vaccinations, I would expect the average life expectancy to continue to decline due to those factors.