Same.
I have some npubs that I end up missing a lot of notes from who I genuinely want to hear from. When I do come across them, sometimes I go and scroll their profile (a tiny bit of PoW). It's sort of like catching up with a friend I haven't talked to in ages. That dopamine hits different than if I were inundated by their "top posts" constantly, which i otherwise wouldnt do. To me this is a feature not a bug.
Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Its that sorta thing.