i am single because i figured out maybe 15 years ago that chasing girls is a fool's game unless you have enough money to keep them

it's not that i would even want to touch a woman that only wants me for the money with a barge pole, or that women only want money, but i want to treat her, i want her to be my pet

that may sound condescending but women like being pets, and i'm not gonna get into the business of how they fabricate reasons why they are where they are, i think that the whole beautiful thing about women is they don't do reasons for doing things, they just feel the need and they do it... the reasons are an afterthought, and actually, for humans in general, a lot of stuff is justified post, not ante

it took me a long time to figure out how i even get into a position to have the resources for this, and i should just add that it's not just the woman that needs money

you can't have the house without money either

it is entirely ridiculous and retarded to say that human males are that much different from such as the bower bird in how we relate to our mates... we have an instinct to build a nice thing for the lady, and we want to weave not just physical but also imaginary ideas about their enclosing space and what protects them

so, i'm building my bower right now

when i get it, the woman will just appear like magic

it never happened in the last 12 years because i didn't understand the whole dynamic

i was homeless for much of it and on a big advencha

and now i'm back down to earth, i'll get it done soon ™️

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🫂🥺💗 so sweet

I hope it happens soon to you

i'm sure it will... i've had bigger battles to deal with before it was even feasible, and i've got quite a woman mind as a creative engineer type... the worst things have been my health, and secondary my mental health, but once i started to get a grip on 1, 2 starts and the third thing will be having the necessary nesting environment that a woman wants

when i was younger, it all just sorta happened by magic and then i stopped socialising... you really don't have much trouble getting female attention if you are charismatic either because you are a liar or because you are creative but the whole scheme of things in the modern world has destroyed so many socialisation mechanisms it's no surprise that we have a big problem with a baby bust now

I don’t agree with the pet thing but I can see why you’d say that. I think you make good points though. I agree that a lot of women don’t look for reasons to do things and that allows them to live more in the moment than men. They probably enjoy life more but are more vulnerable to dangers. Maybe men and women balance each other when it comes to that. I certainly feel more carefree and fun with a woman in my life.

I don’t think women want money as much as they are attracted to security, power, and stability. Money gives you that and makes you stand out from the rest of the options. Plenty of women will be with a man that has no money if they believe he will eventually get it.

yeah, most people confuse things with what they provide... Mises talks about it at some length about how all commodities are not valued for their substance but for their services, and everything that has value acquires this value due to its utility

the "eventually get it" part is a funny one though, there is some vague complicated computation about that one, it is based on charisma, and people who have the most charisma are liars so there is an inherent weakness in the female towards being deceived