I think this is just trash spin? It seems like the woman has taken provocative thoughts and cultural preconceptions and spun them up into attractive consumption.

The fact of the matter that men and women form a symbiotic relationship, ultimately becoming something simular to a "singularity" is the missed conception.

If you're to ask in simple terms:

A man wants?

To be held accountable, especially when it matters most.

To be loved and most importantly, respected.

To be acknowledged, for his effort, and his positive accomplishments.

A man asks:

For loyalty above everything.

Freedom, in every way, and the trust to wield the power of freedom.

For a confidant, a like minded soul mate who challenges him in all ways other men cannot, ie: The Woman