After all the contemplating today I have come to conclusion, although I am happy being myself, I do not feel connection with any community and I do not feel part of anything. This is sad but true.

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Not even art?

No

I would like to believe that there is an art that you cannot live without, once you find it

Ok May be.

That's a mighty fine thought.

Ya 😀

For me the best art is very very underrated. It took me years to find the kinds of art that I cannot live without

That is great

But I can’t say I went into it blind - I was studying how to play music and how to paint and draw for a very long time before I knew enough to find what I was looking for

That is wonderful

In year 1 I was completely closed-minded compared to year 10, so the world suddenly became a lot more interesting and I could make new connections because I could see more possibilities. If I was still in year 1-mode I’d be very depressed right now 😂

Wow 🫂

I would say especially with music it’s important to find something you can enjoy listening to every day. And if that requires learning how to play an instrument, then maybe that’s a community you can connect with.

That is a great idea. I will try to pursue.

Surely there is music and musical instruments that can interest you! There are millions of possibilities.

Thanks

maybe you’re just going through a rough time right now and over thinking. some people are lone wolves too, but you’ve also mentioned your family & group of school mates. sounds like you do have plenty enough community. 🖖🤙

Thanks

an yet here you are in the nostr community

I just keep seeing the differences though

wot diffs?

Like the age gap, cultural gap and feel I can not relate.

um there is many people your age and culture in the world

When I am in India, i feel like an American and when with Americans I feel like an Indian.

With group of moms, I want to break free and stop talking.

And I do not fully relate with young crowd too.

lots of indian americans, so you are a young mom?

No I am done parenting. My twin girls are 17 and do not need me at all.

so not young

No I am almost 50 and menopausal.

interesting you found nostr

Ha!

weird you would have kids and post pronouns

Ya I do not fit in anywhere.

i just checked your profile and you have pronouns, your problem is years of academic brainwashing, gl undoing that mess

Could be.