I think my favorite part of nostr is that after the last 10 years of being a loner weirdo on the outside of every group (after I was kicked out of my religion 10 years ago). I get to see people from so many different groups interacting with each other in a non harmful way.

Perhaps that's because there are other loners here as well, or maybe it's just a place people can speak their mind without censorship or ostracisation, but I get why those who are in their own echo chamber don't gravitate toward it, and those on the outside of any one group who can weave through multiple groups enjoy it.