Element X works kind of nice, but yeah, I am missing a better UX overall on desktop and anywhere outside Element X for matrix.
For me it is the best option though. Open source, decentralised, and I get to guard my own key to messages.
Apps… not great but usable. To me, my daily use tool. What do you pick for secure private chatting? nostr:npub1qny3tkh0acurzla8x3zy4nhrjz5zd8l9sy9jys09umwng00manysew95gx