I feel the same way. I want non-kyc but also feel like it's gotta just be little bits of it here and there that consolidate into a wallet that has extremely rare incoming transactions that I follow a checklist of privacy so I don't accidentally reveal a connection on-chain to myself.

On the other hand, spending non-kyc Bitcoin could become very difficult as future regulators may make it illegal to spend Bitcoin that has previously passed through "illegal" services such as coinjoins. I think my goal is to accumulate a decent % of my stack over time as a hedge against potential KYC shenanigans.