Anger isn’t the problem. Suppressing it, bypassing it, or exploding it everywhere - that’s where things go sideways.
Here’s a healthier way to work with rage when it hits:
Step 1: Name it.
“I’m angry. Something feels off.”
That’s not weakness or drama, it’s awareness.
Step 2: Move it.
Anger lives in the body.
Shake. Stomp. Punch a pillow. Scream into a towel.
Run. Sweat. Cold shower.
Let your body do what your mind can’t.
Step 3: Let it speak (safely).
Journal uncensored. Voice memo it out.
Maybe make it ephemeral on https://heynow.surge.sh/ and let yourself be witnessed by the field. Or not.
No filter, no audience. Just get the rawness out of your system.
Step 4: Get curious.
What’s under the rage?
A boundary crossed? A deep value dismissed?
Old grief showing up in disguise?
Step 5: Use the fire.
Anger is fuel.
Fuel for decisions. Boundaries. Change.
Don’t throw it at people - build with it.
You have every right to feel the rage.
Just don’t let it rot inside you and suffocate you.
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