If someone can give you love so easily—and take it away just as fast—they never truly loved you.

Honestly, they never loved you from the start if they could look you in the eyes and lie. They say things like, “Oh, I love you, there’s no one else, I want to spend my life with you,” but their actions never match their words.

With a narcissist, it’s all a game. They don’t love you.

Love doesn’t lie to you. Love doesn’t hit you. Love doesn’t cheat. Love doesn’t drain you or make you feel small. But this kind of “love” does all of that—over and over again.

If a narcissist—or anyone—can shower you with praise, flood you with affection, call you amazing, and then suddenly block you for breathing the wrong way or accuse you of having a “bad attitude,” it’s not spontaneous. It’s premeditated.

How can someone say, “I love you, I want forever with you,” and in the next breath tell others they can’t stand to be around you?

If I’m so annoying, why do you keep calling me back? Why don’t you just leave me alone?

Because to a narcissist, it’s all part of the sick game.

Do they regret it?

No.

You could’ve just shared something intimate, made plans, or had a beautiful night together—then bam, a goodbye message like nothing ever mattered. Even after years by your side.

Are they waiting for you to reach out? Maybe. But only so they can keep you hooked, under control.

In most cases, if they discard you first, they already have new "supplies" lined up. Cheating is often part of the picture. They may have been with someone else when they met you.

They always keep their bed—and their options—open. Constantly.

They don’t truly attach to people, so breakups don’t affect them much. They might say things to make you think they care, but if you set boundaries and stick to them—wow. They’ll disappear faster than a Ferrari.

If it suits them, they might even try to come back—even while they’re in another “relationship” (if you can even call it that).

To them, every interaction is a chance to gain power, control, sex, status, or money.

After the discard, they don’t care about you.

Truth is, they probably never did. Everything seemed fine—until you found out about the cheating, the lies, the secrets.

That’s when the mask slips. That’s when they make you feel like you’re the crazy one. It’s all part of the manipulation.

Even if they’ve already moved on to a new victim, they still remember you. They often flaunt their new relationship just to upset you—hoping you’re watching.

After the discard, a narcissist hates you.

If you left them, they hate you for leaving.

If they left you, they hate you for no longer being useful.

If they discarded you, it’s because you became too difficult to control—you set boundaries, you saw through them—and now they’re angry.

So they punish you for that.

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