Why Stay in a Relationship Where You’ll Never Be Happy?
Being in a relationship with a narcissist means you will never truly be happy. You will always have to cater to their needs and whims while your own needs remain unfulfilled. You will have to be constantly on guard because a narcissist will try to break your trust and self-confidence. They will belittle you, mock you, and make your life miserable. They will never admit to any wrongdoing—neither their words nor their actions—and they will always find a way to shift the blame onto you.
And you already know this.
You’ve seen it, felt it, and experienced it countless times.
So why do you stay? Why do you want to be in a relationship where you will never be happy?
All around you, there are people who align better with your values, your energy, and your way of life. People who will respect and support you just as much as you support them. People with whom you can find common ground and compromise, even if you're different.
And deep down, you know this too.
You know there are people who won’t exploit your insecurities to control the relationship. You know there are people who won’t try to break you but will help you grow—because they, too, want to grow alongside you. You know there are people you can fully trust, just as they will trust you, without needing to test that trust constantly.
But if you truly believe that your narcissist is capable of any of this, then go back. Stay. If you think they will bring you long-term happiness, then be with them. If you believe they can grow with you and are someone you can genuinely trust, then don’t leave.
But you know the truth. You know exactly what a narcissist does, what they have done, what they are capable of, and what they will do.
So ask yourself this: Do you really want to be in a relationship where being alone would be the better choice?
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