If you are technical enough and run a lightning node, there are self-custodial solutions.
Discussion
Any you've used and recommend?
Yes, I highly recommend https://github.com/mutatrum/ligess a fork by nostr:npub1hklphk7fkfdgmzwclkhshcdqmnvr0wkfdy04j7yjjqa9lhvxuflsa23u2k. I've been running it on my domain with no issues whatsoever.
Perhaps the easiest would be Alby Hub, but I have not tried it myself.
I'd considered it in the past but the pricing was far above the amounts I zap monthly for this particular use case.
I suppose I could broaden my use case to justify it. Hosting may have been the cost. I cant recall. I'll look into it again. Thanks!