like I said, you are completely missing my point. And yes, I have twice had to switch instances and it takes all of 3 seconds to sign up for another and is no different than creating an account on anything online. Non-tech savvy people are never going to deal with this relay nonsense. Just because you understand it does not mean the vast majority of the world's population will. But who cares about that? Why would anyone wanna make something easy to use for regular users? Crazy talk, I know. This attitude of yours is all too prevalent here and is why nostr will NEVER see mass adoption.