I'm not advocating for cancel culture. I'm simply saying that like it or not there are consequences to the things one says.
If someone is uploading to nostr.build's private server, they have the unilateral right to delete content they don't agree with. It's entitled to think they must blindly accept whatever you upload.
If I come to your house and trash it, you have every right to kick me out. This is no different. Claiming cancel culture cause you kicked my destructive and disrespectful ass out of your house is just entitled child behavior.