I'm not a Lightning expert. Everything will have trade offs.

Wallet of Satoshi

Pos: Best UI/UX and as of yet no KYC

Neg: custodial (no privacy from custodians) and pulled from US App Stores

Phoenix

Pos: Pretty good UI/UX, no KYC, self-custody, can use own Electrum server, can use Tor, Splicing

Neg: expensive (min 0.4%), pulled from US App Stores, limited privacy from LSP

Zeus with Olympus

Pos: good ui/ux, no KYC, self-custody

Neg: limited privacy from LSP

Zeus with Own Node

Pos: absolute sovereignty

Neg: managing your own lightning node and channels