I think I’ve mentioned this before, but my wife was raised to be a career woman. Initially, it really attracted me to her because I came from a place with unambitious people.
Once we had our son, I’ve been pushing her towards focusing on raising kids and not worrying about working.
She’s so much better for it. She’s happier, healthier, more fulfilled, and recently has started to become much more playful.
It’s a good life. You should try it.