So what kinda storage should one look into having to run this? Are there certain parameters you can run to limit types of data usage/ duration of stroage etc?
If you're new here and have medium tech skills, please consider running your own relay!
A great one to start with is Nostream by nostr:npub1qqqqqqyz0la2jjl752yv8h7wgs3v098mh9nztd4nr6gynaef6uqqt0n47m
Individuals running relays is what makes nostr decentralized and censorship resistant.
Nobody can ever censor posts on your own relay!