I agree but nostr developers are hard to contain
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That's what happens when you let nostr developers run around without supervision.
Isn’t it part of common sense for them to have a delete button? Really weird imo
Nah. You really can't delete a post. Even with the 'delete request' nip, there's enough relays on the network that archive every note posted by everyone, which means there will always be a copy of everything you post available to everyone, forever. No matter how many times you mash that delete button, your notes won't get deleted by every relay.
It is a good reason to always the a moment of pause before posting anything. Free speech is great, but words still have consequences and Nostr has a kind of permanence that even the broader web doesn't have.