My girl always tells me that there is an art to making a man think things are his(my) idea.
That she can get, do, have, whatever she wants as long as she plays me into suggesting it as my own idea.
I don’t mind, and she’s right, as long as I don’t know any better everything works out for both of us.
Getting married Friday.
That sounds like toxic childish games.
Have a real conversation.
Stop trying to gas light or trick people.
If they can't have a straight conversation with you... You are dating a child.
I agree and don't condone the above suggested.
But I'm also a single woman that never had a good relationship so ...🤣🤣
Men are forever children. It has nothing to do with gas lighting or tricking, but everything to do with man’s inability to appreciate their sensitive nature behind the mask of masculinity.
The key, I found was, was asking myself this question - “Is everything I keep getting corralled into objectively good for me in ways that make me a happier, healthier, and or more resilient person, even as I resist them at first?”
With my wife the answer is always a resounding yes. So……
Admit defeat and submit to happiness. It is not hard. 👁️🧘🏿♂️🔮
Spitting truth. <3
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I'm happy that you're happy.
