How many people outside of Nostr are able to use LN in a privacy preserving non custodial manner?
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not many, which is why we have some work to do to make this easier
monero is probably the easiet if you want privacy and self custody, but I wouldn't hold my money in it.
it seems more likely I would just swap into a custodial cashu node for the amount I wanted to use (if I didn't already have a lightning node). asking everyone to accept monero seems unlikely to ever happen