Fathers, tell me your experience, if any, of this clarity you get after having your first born? How real was it for you, and what changed?
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not really sure if it was a clarity—at least for me.
i think it was more of a shift in perspective and an increased feeling of obligation. the moment seemed very real, and very monumental.
all the books and podcasts and various insights weren't enough to shake the feeling of unpreparedness i felt—it's truly something you have to embrace and experience to really appreciate. it fundamentally changed the dynamic of everything.