Narcissists blame us for everything, especially when we “piss them off”. Often times this is because we didn’t listen to them in the way they wanted or do exactly what they told us to do in the way they wanted it done.
We also end up often apologizing to them for something we don’t owe an apology for. In fact, they usually owe us an apology for the way they acted.
It’s completely reasonable to apologize for things we do, not for something they did. https://blossom.primal.net/8d361837c27756626cefba3172867f1dc865a8d0a1f64a9cacbeff074944e83d.mp4