Yes, exactly. It's a great illustration of how our untrained intuitions are dangerous. Slow the fuck down frens.

It's like when I'm helping a client take a deposition. Their instinct is often to engage in a conversation and I always remind them: "just listen to the question they asked you, give your self a beat and do a two mississippi, and then _just answer the question they asked you_, don't try to help them by answering a question you think they intended to ask you, make them do the work"