Wow, just added another relay and found I had been missing a ton of DMs. Sorry for those who sent and got no response. I've responded to you all now. This actually makes me even more bullish on the culture that is developing here on Nostr. Keep on doing your thing nostrichs.
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do please encourage client devs to implement NIP-65 for PRIVATE MESSAGES o i mean direct messages, lol
i'm gonna be pushing for understanding of the private/public category distinction for nostr events until everyone gets it
DM = private application specific data = private
kind 0, kind 1, kind 3, all the lists... == public
broadcast public, outbox private
actually, i'm pretty much about to stop repeating myself on this subject because it is becoming clear that the choir is retarded and people outside of the church will get this much easier, and will pay for it the moment it can be made available
what relay did you add? nostr:npub1f5pre6wl6ad87vr4hr5wppqq30sh58m4p33mthnjreh03qadcajs7gwt3z
imo disconnected users is a pretty big problem
nostr:note1frzwatx99frs0nez2c0ds65u8xpsvsn8uktfw4luqd3m36z9lxeqd028yz