do please encourage client devs to implement NIP-65 for PRIVATE MESSAGES o i mean direct messages, lol

i'm gonna be pushing for understanding of the private/public category distinction for nostr events until everyone gets it

DM = private application specific data = private

kind 0, kind 1, kind 3, all the lists... == public

broadcast public, outbox private

actually, i'm pretty much about to stop repeating myself on this subject because it is becoming clear that the choir is retarded and people outside of the church will get this much easier, and will pay for it the moment it can be made available