Being part of a community means that you are able to relate to the environment and your fellow human.

You do not need to agree, but you have to be able to talk and listen to every member of your community, and the community of others that may not align with the your views.

If you do not talk to them, you will not know them, and what you do not know, you will fear. What one fears, one destroys.

Lastly, if you are able to put aside some of your needs, and understand that in any great undertaking it is not enough for a man to depend simply upon himself, then you will be able to be part of, form, and maybe even lead a community.