Good question. I had issues with this too when I first joined #Nostr the other day. I’m waiting on an invite from #Alby. I got started with #Damus and used the built in lightning wallet in #Primal when I accessed Nostr from there. What I did in Primal carried over to Damus. For me, that was the easiest way to get up and running with lightning.
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I did the same before Damus’s first aid kit ⛑️
But I was able to zap ⚡️ from my primal wallet. When I receive zap ⚡️ I receive through alby. I don’t like alby because useless wallet beside Damus app.
I’m sure there is a way to change that. But my technical knowledge ends here. I don’t have Alby but I cannot imagine there wouldn’t be a way to change the wallet you’re using to send and receive zaps 🤔