I think you are spot on. I don't like the knee jerk 'never selling/spending' meme. Sats will open doors over long time horizons. Everyone is free to make their own decisions but to gain back time or increase long term quality of life or sovereignty, I will be divesting from portions of my stack here and there.
I also love that you are making room in your mental model for anything you and your family feel called to do.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts about this.