I agree with your sentiment. Most people don't care or don't want what nostr offers them. The core tenets of freedom are not what most people seek. I also agree that for nostr to become the most popular "social" network it has to be better, or even significanlty better on what people care about. People don't seem to care about freedom of speech, freedom, individual responsibility, or having control over their data. Maybe, this shouldn't be the goal becuase it's not realistic. Maybe, nostr will just a be a place for freedom loving individualist, that look for an authentic digital space to communicate? I don't really know.