Youāre not wrong. I think thatās why āsecond party custodyā as the Fedi people like to call it, or āprivateā custody is so interesting.
The idea that a small private community can start their own custodial service for their members and have it be interoperable with the global system at large - without getting prior permission - is very exciting.
Maybe itās not realistic for everyone to ābe their own bankā but if you and your family and friends can be each otherās bank, thatās in a lot of ways just as if not more interesting.