There’s certain shared-values that a lot of nostr users have and when they feel like some sort of behavior compromises whatever value that is, they make a big fuss about it. I’ve broken many “rules” and got backlash. Think of it more as a nostr rite of passage, we all experience push back at some point. At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter and tomorrow everyone’s gonna be focused on the next “issue” and won’t even remember this. I wasn’t following you before, but am now so you can’t leave 😂🫂