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Ended up zapping nostr:npub12jedfuhk2wfr7syr38t2f55652khuyz9f88r63ftm0j2vudxq9sqq7677r twice because NWC crashed and my short term memory went durp. xD Oh well.

I try to not zap #egirls that often if at all. Not out of spite or anything; but because this kind of "give me money and leae" stuff just feels so... un-personal o.o I get this part of the industry, it is how it works. But I do like me a little more person-to-person.

Last time I had that was forever ago with Foxy Anya (hair- and nail-fetish content - im a hair guy, go figure XD) and it was mad fun. The rules of the live streaming site she used - I think it was Vicky Vette's cam-site-thing...? - stated that the model should never mention a viewers name, and we just outright proceeded to spend 10 minutes of her trying to pronounce my name and me ending up emailing her a voice clip mid-show. XD That was fun, personal interaction, whilst it was still very much an erotic stream. But this atmosphere was different and felt like it ment something. Not just a good wank, but also just having a great time on a personal, social level.

I haven't found this experience again in forever. On Twitter, I had a little sparkle of that with someone, but it was both short lived and very temporary when she lost her account and later interest in the scene and just cut ties with everyone. And then there was Rae Lil Black, japanese porngirl turning game streamer during COVID lockdowns. While her streams were ~300 people, it was genuely fun. But then she got into some thai esports team and the whole situation changed and VERY quickly devolved from "i am able to talk to you and play a game" to "give me money and twitch bits and buy my merch and maybe i look at your message eventually" - at which point I just left. Only thing I then noticed is that she once got on a just-chatting stream and cried a river and sought attention from her chat in the most attention-whore way possible. That was just insanely sad.

Fun fact, Rae lived in germany for a while. I could easily have met and helped her. But whatever x) I was there at the beginning, offered my help, was ignored and pushed aside and later just left with a shoulder shrug.

And that is why I try not to zap #egirls for their usual content, because while it gives me "value", it does not give me anything more than effectively a beautiful picture to look at for 30 seconds.

Akito 2y ago

What you do is your business, I just wanna add my usual 2 sats.

I'm against the support of this industry in general, because it promotes violence, exploitation (of mostly women) & normalises something deeply evolutionary important into something to be sold, as if it were a chocolate bar or something.

It's always best to meet real people with real intentions, even if it does not always work out, because when you pay or otherwise support some girl on the internet (unreachable to you), you just support your own objectification.

A good looking girl selling her body is pretty much always exploiting the people falling for it & too often, she herself is exploited, as well.

Loss-Loss situation for everyone.

Obviously, some people feel like they need to resort to this stuff for the lack of opportunities in real life, but I'm certain anyone can make it in real life, even if it takes a longer time than for others.

Like, don't you see so many 3 ranked guys with 8 ranked girls? (I guess, maybe you don't see that, haha....) I see shit like this all the time, so I'm sometimes wondering whether the chick is blind, deaf & not intelligent enough to notice that the guy is not only ugly, but very immature, dumb & incapable of having adult conversations about anything that requires two brain cells rubbing together.

Since I'm already talking about this, I need to debunk some common buzzwords around this topic.

There is no such thing as "sex work". If anyone is talking about this kind of topic, it might at best be described as prostituion. Stop sugarcoating stuff, like it's more generic than sliced bread.

The only actual "adult" content there is, is about how to get shit together in life, like having a job, family & living with manners, pride & respect for other people's lives & opinions. THIS is adult content.

What is generally called "adult" or "NSFW" is essentially a bit of the opposite. One could perhaps say "animal" content, because it manifests the evolutionary instincts from within.

So, I'm for promoting actual adult content. Make people have lives & not waste it on stupid shit.

Hobbies, Jobs, Kids, Wives/Husbands, etc....

I see this turned out to be some general statement, but whatever, it'll end up as a reply, anyway.

These are some thoughts about the topic that have piled up in my head since I started using this platform, because there was too much blind (haha) acceptance for exploiters & at the same time exploited.

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