what a mess...

2) young and beautiful doesn't mean "high status"

3) there is more to women than looks

5) women are grateful when you treat them well, to believe otherwise makes you abusive and wretched man. also, women initiate divorce more because most men aren't capable of the commitment marriage requires (and typically too lazy to file the paperwork).

7) transactional dynamics and expectations will doom a marriage

8) demonstrates shallow thinking

9) an emotionally fulfilled woman won't nag her husband—do your part in the "partnership"

10) so do many men.

11) again, shallow thinking amongst men in general.

these are not "uncomfortable truths"

they're justifications to rationalize (very poorly) being an a-hole