Your post to reply ratio says everything about how you use Nostr.

If you only post and wait for people to find you, you are living in the fiat world. There's no central algorithm to carry your posts to strangers.

The only way people discover your work is if you show up for them first. It's this beautiful forcing function for you to go out and make real connections.

Maybe this is why the vibe on Nostr is so much different.