use a relay that doesn’t do this or use less filters
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I can definitely be selective on relays, but the whole point was to have several filters
The goal is to have filters passed to a notification service and then that service will send push notifications
These filters can be of any event type, pubkey mention or hashtag so several filters need to be concurrently listened to
Thanks for helping by the way 🙏
try using multiple connections, it works around the dumber per-connection limiting ones. I hope any that limit by IP also have reasonable limits