This comes across as mean, harsh, or too direct to some. Others would say "didn't Jesus tell you to 'Love thy neighbor?''
I implore you to, no matter who you are or what your background is, to read the NASB95 translation of the Gospel of John. Read for yourself what Jesus said.
Furthermore, we are talking about spiritual life or death here. I'm not going to dance around the bush.
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