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dating is supposed to be about passion or at least fun - which means it should be strictly for young people

dating after the age of 40 is degenerate regardless of issues like looks or fertility

i am simply not interested in falling in love or having "fun" at my age in mid 40s even though my face looks basically the same as it did 20 years ago

likewise some women in hollywood still look good in their 40s because they have good genetics, took care of themselves and maybe used some plastic surgery here and there ... but DiCaprio still dumps all his women when they hit 25 and he is right

because no amount of diet, exercise and plastic surgery can reverse SOUL ROT

a woman could freeze her eggs but you can't keep the child inside you from dying as you face the ugliness of the world on a daily basis

i remember when i first learned about what Jews were doing to Palestinians maybe about 15 years ago i had this " wow, no way ! " type of reaction to it ...

today my reaction is " well this is a world of shit where Jew demon parasites farm the half-decomposed bible-humping Boomer cattle for tax revenue used to mass murder women and children by carpet bombing, genocide them through engineered starvation and rape detainees to death. meanwhile the livelihood of any "civilized" human being depends on constantly pretending we do not understand this and continuing to comply"

it doesn't matter if i still look the same on the outside. the person who used to live here is gone. the same happens to women, except instead of thinking about Palestine they sink about whatever it is women think of ( handbags ? ) but regardless if they aren't completely retarded they will sink to the same level of darkness by the same age ...

how what kind of "fun" can two overflowing containers of darkness have by sharing their darkness with each other ?

NONE

dating should be between two people whose inner child is still alive. and he dies in women earlier than he dies in men because men spend more time studying and working while women spend more time associating with other people.

i remember wanting to marry my 1st GF who was a cheating whore. i remember not thinking about how that was supposed to work out AT ALL and just wanting it because i was in love. only something like 2 years later i dumped a very pretty girlfriend who was all over me to the point of me having to sleep in the car because she wanted to have sex all the time and i had to hide from her ... i dumped her because she had a small son from some other guy ( she was 23 ).

and since i turned 30 or so i never spoke to a new girl again. i had met up with the Jewish girl a few times but only because i had already known her for many years. sometimes she would just call me and ask to meet up and i would agree.

but at some point i blocked her on my phone and that was a decade ago and i haven't spoken to a single woman since because my mindset changed from " wow she is cute i am in wub " to " where is this supposed to go ? nowhere "

in Soviet Union where i was born this was well understood. i never heard of people over 30 dating in USSR. back then people would fuck like rabbits from about 15-23 ( for girls ) or 18-25 ( for guys ) or so and then just get married.

guess what ? we have a different "culture" here in US but it was pretty much the same for me here as well, except instead of getting married i went MGTOW.

this Jewish / Amerikwan INSANITY where you have 18 as age of consent and then you just keep dating until you're 80 years old is BULLSHIT

an adult man and adult woman can only have a meaningful relationship if they share children.

ROMANTIC relationship can only be between two idealistic young people, REGARDLESS of physical appearance.

you don't stop dating because you don't look good enough anymore. you stop dating because you lose that inner spark.

of course a woman who relies on men for financial support will keep dating for as long as her looks can support it but if you date a woman like that you are essentially fucking a prostitute.

i am not against prostitutes - i am against bullshit. if you're sucking my cock for money then i want to be clear that this is the deal. i don't want you taking my money in exchange for telling me that you love me until you find somebody with a thicker wallet. that is disgusting, and yet that's how most people in Amerikwa "live"

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Kayne 5mo ago

I have never dated.

every sexual relationship I've had, a mutual friend just introduced us .

No talking or going to restaurants or calling each other on the phone, In my teens and 20s, a friend would introduce me to a mutual friend and the next day I'd be living in her house drinking beers with her Dad.

Prince Aleph 5mo ago

It works like this even with the Amerikwan "culture" - the men in my social circle who got married (which is almost all of the ones I still talk to) pretended like they enjoyed dating but you could obviously tell they didn't. As soon as the chance came to get married and exit all of that, they did.

The one guy whose wedding I was in as a groomsman, he was complaining shortly before he met his current wife about how tiresome it all was (he had dated 50-100 women in a couple of years and I had questioned his sanity for this). And then basically a hot young chick fell in his lap and he never dated again nor wants to. Well, she was 21 but I suppose when you're in your mid-30s that seems like a really good deal. And she was at least smart enough to stop riding the carousel before her eggs ran out.

Another one was dating chicks in LA before moving back here, but he hated LA and complained about how soul-crushing the grind was there, and when he came back after Covid he got married almost immediately after dating the other guy's sister a short time and fell into his natural Italian mama's boy / family man role.

Another one is a half-Jewish guy from Jersey, the most successful guy in the circle, and he met some chick in college and just stayed with her ever since.

Another one is also half-Jewish and was with the same woman for a long time but I think she divorced him but I don't know for sure and I don't care enough to find out.

Then there's the Jewish guy that lived down the street from me where I grew up and he's in Vegas now - already been married and divorced and he is still dating, but he was always having woman problems for his whole life. You can't help this kind of person.

A side note here - of those guys only the Italian guy had children so far. And this is after years of marriage for all of them. We'll see how that goes.

These are examples of revealed preference - though it seems high status to date hot women, basically no one, as revealed by what they actually do, wants to do it much. Unless they are degenerates.

As for meeting new girls, after exiting my MGTOW / shut-in phase, I found out again how easy it is to meet new ones even if you are older (although the Zoomers out there probably think I'm around the same age or just a bit older). New ones will literally show up all the time. But the drive to actually date them isn't there. Being around hot women is more like an energizing feeling than anything else whether you're in the gym or on the dance floor. I don't need to physically possess them to get it, and of course if I did I would face all the problems I used to when I dated women in my younger days - with a good deal less patience for it. And I wasn't exactly patient then LOL.

I'm not completely opposed to sexual relationships if it happens naturally but I don't have the romantic yearning of my youth that can make me drunk with desire like in those days. I kind of miss it but you can't wake the dead.

And you're right, men get duped in prostitution masquerading as marriage all the time. Most of them don't even get laid again past a short period of time. I can't imagine why anyone would do this apart from conformity, and I've found in most cases that's what motivates it.

Dissident Sound 5mo ago

yeah being MGTOW is socially unacceptable just like being a "pedo" ... even though if you look at great people in history many of them were one or the other ... but Americans are primitive animals who expect you to be a good brick in the wall - move out at 18, sleep around in college, save up for a down payment on a home then marry a former whore and have 2.1 children. if you live any other way you're a loser, a weirdo or some other word. a conveyor belt from cradle to grave. everything is regimented like what hobbies you should have, how and when you should vacation and so on.

if you want to project high status you must have a Porsche in the garage and Bowers & Wilkins speakers in the living room, even if you have no interest in either. and you must take your wife out to expensive restaurants even if you have no idea why you're there or why you're married at all. You must also constantly tell everybody in the gym locker room about your Porsche and the restaurant you went to and your vacation in Italy in exactly the same fucking spot that every other piece of shit Boomer visits to the point where the only people there are American Boomers and Gypsies who rob them.

i am not saying that it's OK to just watch porn and play video games. there should be something more to life. but it should be about self-actualization not following the conveyor belt to the grave.

IMO ...

🥚 5mo ago

It depends where in America. In more rural areas people get married a lot earlier, virgins if they are Christians. Then they have 3 to 7 kids. She stays as home.

Prince Aleph 5mo ago

If you live in a big metro area in the North a situation like this is non-existent.

Dissident Sound 5mo ago

i will repost but you need to get a handle on the length of these posts.

you used to make short posts then they started getting longer and now it's like a detailed summary of everything that has ever happened to everybody and i know that's how i write myself but we should really be more considerate of the poor people who have to read all this