I didn’t used to believe this, but over time I’ve come to see we can have multiple ‘soulmates.’

We fall in love not just with the person, but mainly with the version of ourselves that they help us unlock. Their presence in our life brings out new depths of self-love, self-alignment, and a clearer sense of who we really are at our core.

Because of this, I don’t think soulmates are limited to just one person. This experience can be replicated with others, though it definitely takes time and patience to find someone who awakens that part of us.

This isn’t a post about polyamory. More about falling in love with others throughout your life, and what that actually means and looks like. Relationships can fall apart for a number of reasons, but that doesn’t mean your life is over because the love was and is within you the whole time.