Sounds like you need to start a brutal “unfollowing purge”

My approach:

- first if nothing has been posted in 4 weeks, then not active, and can unfollow

- 2nd: if I don’t see any recent posts I value, then unfollow

- 3rd: if the account re-appears in the future, then you can re-follow, and the energy has re-aligned

4th: (and this is really just for me, but I wonder if anyone else gets it) don’t worry about other peoples expectations as a follower. They’ll get over it. Aim to get what you actually want

🙏🏻

Ps - I totally agree that I am looking for real stories from real people