This started with Gen X but really ramped up with Millennials. I was blinded too.
Now I just look at my son and can’t believe I waited so long to start a family.
Don’t wait to have everything figured out, because you’ll never get there. Starting a family is a forcing function. I have never been happier or more successful in my life and work since marrying and starting a family.
It’s like a major tailwind pushing me forward.
I will also say, without submitting my life to Christ and following Scripture, I would still be lost in hedonism. So, start with facing your own sin and find the Savior. Out of ashes, God can grow beautiful things.