I am done with directing other peoples dating apps.
I had a friend who was on a dating app and I was swiping for her with her giving the final say. There was one guy who I liked the look of but she did not want to swipe yes. I convinced her to give him a go - “at least chat to him and you can always deleting him later” I said.
Well they ended up matching and meeting up. The next time I saw her she told me she was pregnant and it was with the guy I swiped on! She told me that I was the reason she was going to have a baby. At the time she seemed happy enough. Surprised that her life had taken this unexpected turn and just sort of amused at how it happened from a guy she did not even want to swipe on.
The next time I saw her it was a different story. She was still pregnant but they had broken up and it seemed he did not want to have much to do with her. She was mad at me - “This is all your fault! I never would have swiped on him! I am going to be a single mother because of you!”…yeah. Anyway we dont talk anymore. I hope she is doing ok.