Narcissists will never tell you the truth. They won’t admit they are liars, cheaters, and manipulators. They won’t apologize for anything—instead, they will blame you for everything. They won’t tell you how they worked behind your back to sabotage you, badmouth you, or make it seem like you were the problem in the relationship.
They are frauds. They do not love you. They see you only as an object, something they own. They lie about everything—even when they accuse you of things like cheating, stealing, or being secretive, they’re often the guilty ones. The truth is, they are with you because of what you have or what you can do for them. They see you as disposable—as long as you serve their needs, they keep you around. But the moment they feel you are no longer useful or that you’re not fulfilling their expectations, they leave. And believe this: while they were devaluing you, they were already securing new sources of supply. That’s why it seems like they “move on” so quickly. In reality, they had multiple backups ready long before they discarded you.
They hate you, but they still need you—for now. That’s why they stay a little longer. They constantly compare you to the next best victim and their past supply. They use you, cheat on you, envy you. They were never truly in a relationship with you. They enjoy your pain, despise your happiness, and they don’t even want to touch you.
Ending things with you is easy for them because, in their mind, there was never a real relationship to begin with. They never gave—they only took. They get tired of keeping up their fake persona. It’s exhausting for them to pretend to be someone they’re not, and eventually, they decide it’s no longer worth the effort. By then, they’ve drained you so much that you’re of no use to them anymore.
When you start sensing they’re about to discard you, they might linger just a little longer—because they love the drama. They enjoy the chaos they create. It fuels their twisted mind.
Remember this: they fed you exactly what you craved, because that was their bait. That’s how they trapped you. And now? The game is over. It was never about you—it was always about them.
The relationship they sold you on? It never existed. It was never real. In their world, true emotional connection doesn’t count and never will. A narcissist is incapable of feeling because their brain never fully developed in the regions responsible for love, empathy, and compassion.
They will forget you like last night’s dinner, as if you never existed. And they won’t care. To them, you’re just someone they used to know.
But you are smart. You are kind. And they are no longer worthy of having you as their toy.
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