True but I'm using Tor because I run my node from a physical machine in my house and I don't wanna leak my IP.

Since I'm using Umbrel the Bitcoin node also connects through I2P, although not the Lightning node, not sure it's possible to use Lightning over I2P yet.

But the weakest link in Tor is exit nodes. If you only connect to your own node, which is itself an onion hidden service, no traffic goes through an exit node.

Feds can still control enough relays for a timing attack sure. But unless they have reason to specifically target you, I don't think this is a concern for most people.