what if your "peer" is not an always online edge device, but rather an always online personal server that you access from any number of very light edge devices...?
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If that’s the case, he could also run a Nostr relay that he controls himself.
Exactly! I really think what we need (once s9 clearnet is released) is for every meetup to run a node with all the things keychat needs and then just build that platform out to have a mesh of s9 stuff across the us.
Once urbit removes the shitcoin from their stack (supposedly coming soon), it is also a contender - natively p2p networked with NAT holepunching: https://urbit.org/
What is this? Have you used it?
very extensively. used to co-run a consultancy that built software for it. and then started a business that built on top of a fork/competitor to it.