That wasn't the debate but because most of the people who got a boost of dopamine from HODL's message chimed in happily and created a bunch of noise that obfuscated the original signal.
I'd tell you to go do some due diligence and look it up yourself but I know that you don't do that so I'll spoonfeed it to you.
HODL said "Marriage and family is essential for a full and happy life".
That's false.
My position is not anti-marriage, anti-children, or anti-family.
My position is, very specifically, that HODL's statement was wrong.
There are people who live a full and happy life without those things.