Subnostr

Have been talking about this with nostr:nprofile1qqsqfjtqf9a0vx9wrr63g7e7tscfau7c5cj3w69pczpquqkfxa5vcwcpffmhxue69uhkxun9v968ytnwdaehgu3wwa5kueg2pfmhxue69uhkxun9v968ytnwdaehgu3wwa5kueg2pg3kummnw3ezqgmjv4kxz7fqydnhymmhdehhxarj0wkync for a few days. While she's passionate and wants to find hot pink 🩷 "love", it gives me the hibijibees big time

Imagine meeting a woman, and feeling "feelings" ... you burn with ze desire to fill her in your arms, your loins burning with passion

Yuck 🤢😂

I'd much rather cut to the chase, and meet a sensible, level-headed woman who just wants someone to grow old with

My two cents

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Surrealistic Menina 1y ago

I don't think I made myself clear. But anyway, why do you guys think that is impossible for 2 people to love each other? I mean to real love someone? That means caring for the other as oneself? And that feeling being reciprocated??

retired npub 1y ago

Sounds like work 😂😂

And, men shirk work

Surrealistic Menina 1y ago

That's the paradox...love is easy. Passion, lust attachment, that is hard with ri, when love does not exist. People run after lust and get burned and also sometimes even destroyed.

When someone really cares for you, there is not that much work, because priority is to see the other well.

retired npub 1y ago

My honest, very honest fear is not being able to live up to someone's expectations of love and caring just because I'm not wired that way

I have my own weird ways of showing I care. It's a guy thing

Surrealistic Menina 1y ago

For that communication exists. We don't read minds.

But I think that when two people really care for each other, there is a dance that flows and those things happen naturally and organically because is not a power struggle but a will to understand and make things work, not for "Me", but for "Us".

Maybe it's rare but not impossible.

I am very well by my own. If I don't find someone that cares for me as I care for him, I will be happilly ever after , alone. 😀

retired npub 1y ago

No, find some weird Euro guy 😂😂😂

Don't become an old cat lady

Surrealistic Menina 1y ago

That was my second line that I did not write..🤣🤣🤣🤣

Ain't gonna manifest that! 😂😂😂

retired npub 1y ago

I do very much love the concept of "Us". I do want to find that in life and grow old with a fussy old woman

retired npub 1y ago

I just wonder, honestly, if being tone deaf to love is a shortcoming 🤔

Flow 1y ago

It’s hard to define love in a universal way, that’s why there is so munch incomprehension, but if your able to level set with the other person, more than possible!