I don't think I made myself clear. But anyway, why do you guys think that is impossible for 2 people to love each other? I mean to real love someone? That means caring for the other as oneself? And that feeling being reciprocated??
Have been talking about this with nostr:nprofile1qqsqfjtqf9a0vx9wrr63g7e7tscfau7c5cj3w69pczpquqkfxa5vcwcpffmhxue69uhkxun9v968ytnwdaehgu3wwa5kueg2pfmhxue69uhkxun9v968ytnwdaehgu3wwa5kueg2pg3kummnw3ezqgmjv4kxz7fqydnhymmhdehhxarj0wkync for a few days. While she's passionate and wants to find hot pink 🩷 "love", it gives me the hibijibees big time
Imagine meeting a woman, and feeling "feelings" ... you burn with ze desire to fill her in your arms, your loins burning with passion
Yuck 🤢😂
I'd much rather cut to the chase, and meet a sensible, level-headed woman who just wants someone to grow old with
My two cents
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Sounds like work 😂😂
And, men shirk work
That's the paradox...love is easy. Passion, lust attachment, that is hard with ri, when love does not exist. People run after lust and get burned and also sometimes even destroyed.
When someone really cares for you, there is not that much work, because priority is to see the other well.
My honest, very honest fear is not being able to live up to someone's expectations of love and caring just because I'm not wired that way
I have my own weird ways of showing I care. It's a guy thing
For that communication exists. We don't read minds.
But I think that when two people really care for each other, there is a dance that flows and those things happen naturally and organically because is not a power struggle but a will to understand and make things work, not for "Me", but for "Us".
Maybe it's rare but not impossible.
I am very well by my own. If I don't find someone that cares for me as I care for him, I will be happilly ever after , alone. 😀
I just wonder, honestly, if being tone deaf to love is a shortcoming 🤔
It’s hard to define love in a universal way, that’s why there is so munch incomprehension, but if your able to level set with the other person, more than possible!